by As society embraces a more sex-positive culture, the ownership of sex toys in America has reached 63% and continues to rise. With an overwhelming variety of sexual toys available, it can be challenging to understand their proper usage.
To assist you in navigating this realm, the SexToyCollective presents a comprehensive guide to 8 popular sex toy categories. Regardless of your gender, this guide covers everything from vibrators and anal beads to cock rings, ensuring you become a skilled user of sex toys.
Let’s dive right in and become experts in the world of sexual pleasure!
1. How to Use a Dildo
Finding the right dildo for your needs is crucial since they come in various shapes and sizes. If you’re using a dildo for vaginal penetration, prioritize body-safe materials like silicone. For anal use, ensure the dildo is also body-safe and features a flared base to prevent accidental slippage.
Safety should always be a priority!
Even if you have natural lubrication, it’s highly recommended to use a high-quality water-based lube on both the dildo and your vagina/anus for enhanced comfort. Take your time, create a relaxing ambiance with soothing music, and gradually introduce the dildo into your body. Avoid rushing or thrusting too vigorously, especially if the dildo is larger in size. Allow your body to adjust and become accustomed to the dildo’s dimensions.
Once you feel relaxed and adequately stretched, you can increase the speed and intensity according to your preferences. Additionally, exploring different positions can add excitement. Instead of using your hands, you can try balancing the dildo on the floor and ride it, or squat down onto it.
If you’re inclined, you can even practice oral stimulation techniques on the dildo.
2. How to Use a Bullet Vibrator
Bullet vibrators are primarily designed for external clitoral stimulation, so it’s best to focus on the external areas rather than inserting them. Simply hold these clitoral toys against your clitoris and experiment with different vibration settings until you discover a pattern and intensity that pleases you.
The sensation is absolutely delightful.
If your clitoris is highly sensitive, you can try using a bullet vibe on your clitoral hood or explore other areas of your vulva. They can also be used to tease and stimulate erogenous zones like the nipples and inner thighs. While some women prefer not to use lube with bullet vibrators, I personally recommend it for added comfort.
By the way, bullet vibrators are incredibly versatile and can easily be incorporated into the bedroom! It’s worth noting that 81% of women have introduced a sex toy to their intimate experiences with their partners, so why not give it a try? Combining clitoral stimulation with penetrative sex can create a truly magical experience.
3. How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator
Rabbit vibrators are specifically designed to provide simultaneous external clitoral and internal G-spot stimulation. By targeting these two pleasure zones, you can experience a “blended orgasm” that combines different types of female orgasms into one incredible sensation.
It’s an exciting experience!
To begin, use the “bunny ears” to stimulate your clitoris and arouse your sexual desire. Once you’re sufficiently turned on, apply water-based lube to the main shaft of the toy and gradually insert it into your vagina. Ensure that the tip of the shaft is angled towards your stomach, as this is where the G-spot is located.
The design of the rabbit vibrator will guide you on how to insert it properly.
Most rabbit vibrators offer multiple settings to control the vibration of the bunny ears and the G-spot tip. Additionally, many of these toys include features for rotations and swirling motions within the main shaft. Start with lower intensity vibrations and gradually increase the intensity as desired.
4. How to Use a Wand Vibrator
Wand vibrators, such as the renowned Hitachi Magic Wand, are renowned for their powerful and deep vibrations. These toys are primarily designed for external clitoral stimulation, although some individuals have reported using them for penis stimulation as well, opening up various possibilities.
When using a wand vibrator on your clitoris, it’s advisable to apply firm pressure against your body, if you’re comfortable doing so, to allow the intense vibrations to reach your deeper clitoral complex (as your clitoris extends further than you might realize) and heighten your arousal.
Exploring wand vibrators with a partner can also be an exciting option!
It’s important to note that these powerful toys can cause numbness if used for extended periods. To maintain sensitivity and maximize enjoyment, it’s recommended to move the wand vibrator around different areas of your vulva, ensuring that you continue to feel the vibrations and experience pleasurable sensations.
Remember, the goal is to have fun and avoid numbing sensations.
5. How to Use A Butt Plug
A variety of individuals find different uses for butt plugs, including sexual pleasure, prostate stimulation, and anal stretching prior to engaging in anal sex. It’s essential to select butt plugs made from body-safe materials and equipped with a flared base to prevent them from becoming trapped inside.
Avoiding a trip to the emergency room is everyone’s goal!
To begin, gently insert one or two well-lubricated fingers into your anus. It’s important to give your anus time to stretch and adapt before attempting to insert a sex toy. Once you can comfortably accommodate two or three fingers, you can progress to using a butt plug.
For individuals new to anal toys, it’s recommended to start with a small silicone butt plug with an insertable length of 2-3 inches. It’s crucial not to use overly large sex toys if you’re not yet accustomed to them.
Cover the butt plug with high-quality water-based lube and slowly insert it into your anus. Initially, it may feel uncomfortable, but once the plug is fully inserted, your anus will close around the slender neck of the plug, creating a more natural sensation.
Certain butt plugs, like the Lovense Hush, are designed for extended wear, such as throughout the day. For instance, the Lovense Hush features a unique spiral neck design that helps retain lube within the sphincter and reduces the likelihood of it slipping out easily.
In conclusion,
It is our hope that you have gained valuable knowledge on utilizing and enjoying sex toys. Whether you’re engaging with them alone or with a partner, it is crucial to prioritize safety, adhere to instructions, and embrace the pleasure.
With a range of options, from rabbit vibrators to butt plugs, there are numerous ways to enhance your sexual experiences and add excitement to your intimate moments using sex toys!
